Have you looked at devnet?:
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www.adobe.com]
lynda,com resources are great. Flash is a pretty confusing app to get started in. If you have the basics down (IMHO, you should get a grip on the tools and basic concepts before you jump into websites and applications-you should work thru all the included tutorials), you can search amazon.com for books, then read the comments and reviews of others.
If you have a decent bookstore near you, you can then go see if the books work for you.
You might also want to research the pros and cons of Flash websites.
JoeM