I have searched for directions, but they mention a menu button, that I don't see.

I am using that new software, that came out 4-5 years ago...

Just cant seem to get the activity I want located on the first screen

I do, but haven't looked at the software in a few years. Did you try calling? Their tech support was good when I was setting it up...

It's all set up via app on your phone these days. No more computer app - that "software" could be the problem. If it's a hub based remote, try downloading the Harmony app.

[support.myharmony.com]

You've probably already visited that page, but check to be sure you are using the right method for getting to your remote.