First replace your headlight bulbs with Sylvania Silverstars. You can get them at any Wal*Mart, and they are the only bulbs I've found that offer a real and useful improvement in your ability to see at night. They cost a little more and they don't last quite as long, but the difference in visibility is well worth it. The light is brighter and whiter without that stupid-looking blue, green, or pink cast that most "improved" bulbs have. Best of all, they are perfectly legal and the same wattage as regular bulbs, so you just drop them in with no need to upgrade your vehicle wiring.
If you get driving lights, please don't leave them on ALL THE FREAKING TIME, even when the night is perfectly clear and there's a ton of traffic around you... Ford Explorer drivers are the worst -- most Exploders come with those ornamental "fog" lights from the factory, and the morons who buy them seem to think everyone will enjoy the light show all the time. Pontiac cars also have ornamental lights and moron drivers, but at least their lights are mounted down low where they're a little less irritating.
Ahem. Sorry -- you're not one of those idiots. But it had to be said.
I've never found fog lights to be at all useful in actual fog. Not one single bit. They might possibly improve your visibility to other traffic by a foot or two, but you can't see any further or better. Usually worse, actually, because of the increased glare. YMMV.
However, properly mounted and properly used driving lights can be useful in certain rare situations. (NO oncoming traffic.) The built-in lights that come from the factory on some cars are invariably useless, but you can set up real driving lights in different ways for different situations. For example, if you drive a lot of curves, you can set up your driving lights in a crossing or splayed pattern to better illuminate the shoulders and curves. If there are a lot of deer roads in your area, you can set them up to light up the shoulder and any suicidal deer or possums. If you're primarily interested in straight line high speed, then aim them far down the road.
The key is to get a set that you can aim in different ways and then go out and experiment to determine what's best for your situation. And then have the discipline to turn them off around other traffic.
Frankly, real driving lights are kinda ugly -- they're big, mounted as high as possible, are high wattage (use a relay, please) and have good mounting systems that you can adjust easily but that will hold their position. The compact, sleek-looking units are pretty useless. But hey, trucks look pretty cool with big ugly lights, so who cares?