Well, Bonnie is married to Michael O'Keefe, who played Danny in Caddyshack, and has been for like 20+ years.
Doesn't mean she hasn't played for the other team, but less likely than the others in recent decades.
Not that there is anything wrong with it.
Strength without compassion is brutality. Compassion without strength is weakness.
We must train our minds to desire what the situation demands.